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Sociology

Gettysburg College

SURGE

2018

Sexuality

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Stop Pretending To Be Like Me, Brianna O'Boyle Apr 2018

Stop Pretending To Be Like Me, Brianna O'Boyle

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I was scrolling on my Facebook feed when I saw a post that appeared to be a proposal featuring two women captioned: “She said yes!!!!!!” My first thought was how wonderful it was to see a happy, loving gay couple, and how heartening it is that they can be open and out about their relationship. As a queer person, it is always nice to see people who share that part of myself being visible. However, upon closer examination it was obvious that it was two straight best friends, joking. [excerpt]


When "Straight" Is The Default Setting, Katie Estell Mar 2018

When "Straight" Is The Default Setting, Katie Estell

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Coming out was never something I pictured myself having to do. Did I plan on being in the closet my entire life? Not exactly. I hardly had a clue that I was gay until I was eighteen. My friends and family sometimes struggle to understand that I am “suddenly” gay, after having dated boys since I was a freshman in high school. Their common misunderstanding is one of many that result from living in a heteronormative culture. [excerpt]